Taking the Bite Out of Turkey Day with Feng Shui!
Just ask Meredith! Married for more than twenty years, Meredith had never hosted the family Thanksgiving before and was bound and determined to make everything absolutely perfect - from menu to table décor to making sure that her furniture placement made her guests feel comfy and at ease during that first year she was tasked with turkey duty. Yes, Meredith as intent on creating the most beautiful weekend in the world. Although, truth be told, she was concerned about her older sister, a critical chick with a gourmet palate and a forked tongue who had a particular gift for getting under Meredith's skin.
One shade shy of frantic, Meredith rang me last year and asked if there were anything from the worlds of ancient traditions and customs that would help make this modern day celebration one that would WOW! Of course there is and here are some of the powerful and positive results oriented action items I offered up:
1.) Always do best to use YELLOW MUMS as the floral décor of choice and also try best to place them strategically all throughout the home. These plants, along with other assorted fresh-cut flowers, are known to usher in both tranquility and peace while also bringing a handy dash of recognition and reward for you efforts. According to much research as well as ancient ritual and rite, yellow flowers are often used to enhance and ‘wake up' a room much like the rising sun does each day. Stay with that idea because yellow flowers are believed to bring a sunshine spirit to any room as they lighten and brighten while creating a cozy, welcoming environment. Now, if you are visiting (and LUCKY you if you are!) you can go ahead and gift your host and hostess with a yellow mum as you'll then be wishing them a heaping helping of harmony and happiness. And then your friendship will be something that they will be truly thankful for!
2.) Try best to use side lighting (table lamps, candles etc) as opposed to overhead lighting. Harsh or over-the-head lights can create subtle shadows which will have a negative effect on the psyche of everyone in the room. Using overhead lighting ONLY is thought to lead to anxious guests and that's one energy that nobody actually ever invites in the first place. Using both side and overhead lighting or strictly side-lighting alone creates a cozy and warm atmosphere that lifts spirits rather than depressing them! This tip is worth a drumstick alone!
3.) Cover your table with a cloth table covering as these are thought to have the ability to absorb any negative vibes or floating discord. For this occasion, paper just won't cut it.
4.) Place a round and flat mirror (any size) under the centerpiece on the table to ground the energy in that room and to offer opportunity to reflect back on the year that just passed giving thanks for all the wonders and fortune and luck that this year held. Round and flat mirrors positioned under the centerpiece are said to disperse health, happiness and harmony into the room, three guests you should gladly invite to break bread with you!
5.) Serve almond rice cookies (along with whatever other pumpkin pie traditions or age-old dessert recipes your family and friends enjoy) at the end of this feast. This super sweet ‘secret' not only brings a delicious close to the day's events but also adds an extra dollop of fortune and luck as well. At least so say ancient Feng Shui masters. Closing a meal with these peace-packed confections strikes the absolutely sweetest chord.
6.) After that main meal has been served and eaten, it's time to take a walk. It's believed that, weather permitting, getting outside and connecting with Nature will restore, revive and rejuvenate even the most lulled into food and football coma energies. While you are out and about you should practice a conscious kind of breathing. As you inhale in through the nose, you should bring in a big breath of oxygen that fills the belly (although there may not be as much room there as you might like.) On the inhale, breathe in a special word that you would like to embrace in your life. Often times I tell my clients to breathe in the word ‘comfort' or even ‘joy.' You visualize that joy going all the way down and filling the belly. Then, on the exhale, breathe out true and sincere gratitude. Blow your blessings, hard, into the ethers and the atmosphere before breathing in your hope or wish or dream again. Then breathe it out with big gusts of gratitude. Do this eight times in all and shift your essence and your vibration to become the magnet for the manifestation you desire. This is a powerful breathing exercise that will even help your digestion process as well. Be filled with joy. And give gratitude back.
7.) And, then, lastly, there is the olden tradition that says that in the United States pears are eaten after sundown on Thanksgiving to bless all who do with Health, Happiness and Prosperity until the next Thanksgiving rolls around.
And that is what I wish for each of you! A Healthy, Happy and Prosperous holiday filled with good food, great family and friends, harmony, joy and gratitude galore!